A FATHER´S INSTRUCTIONS FOR LIFE
Condensed from “LIFE´S LITTLE INSTRUCTIONS BOOK”
H. JACKSON BROWN, JR.
Years ago, I read that it was the responsibility of parents not to pave the road for their children, but to provide a road map. So, as my son, Adams, prepared to leave for college, I jotted down a few words of counsel and put them in a dime-store binder. After his mother and I had helped him move into his dorm, I presented him with the bound pages.
A few days later, Adam called me. “Dad,” he said, “the book is one of the best gifts I´ve ever received. I´m going to add to it and someday give it to my son.”Every once in a while life hands you a moment so precious, so overwhelming, that you almost glow. I had just experienced one.
Here are the words I gave him.
Ø COMPLIMENT THREE PEOPLE EACH DAY.
Ø WATCH A SUNRISE AT LEAST ONCE A YEAR.
Ø OVERTIP BREAKFAST WAITRESSES.
Ø LOOK PEOPLE IN THE EYE.
Ø SAY « THANK YOU » A LOT.
Ø SAY « PLEASE » A LOT.
Ø LIVE BENEATH YOUR MEANS.
Ø BUY WHATEVER KIDS ARE SELLING ON CARD TABLES IN THEIR FRONT YARDS.
Ø TREAT EVERYONE YOU MEET AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.
Ø DONATE TWO PINTS OF BLOOD EVERY YEAR.
Ø MAKE NEW FRIENDS BUT CHERISH THE OLD ONES.
Ø KEEP SECRETS.
Ø DON´T WASTE TIME LEARNING THE « TRICKS OF THE TRADE .INSTEAD, LEARN THE TRADE.
Ø ADMIT YOUR MISTAKES.
Ø BE BRAVE. EVEN IF YOU´RE NOT, PRETEND TO BE. NO ONE CAN TELL THE DIFFERENCE.
Ø CHOOSE A CHARITY IN YOUR COMMUNITY AND SUPPORT IT GENEROUSLY WITH YOUR TIME AND MONEY.
Ø READ THE BILLS OF RIGHTS.
Ø USE CREDIT CARDS ONLY FOR CONVENIENCE, NEVER FOR CREDIT.
Ø NEVER CHEAT.
Ø GIVE YOURSELF A YEAR AND READ THE BIBLE COVER TO COVER.
Ø LEARN TO LISTEN. OPPORTUNITY SOMETIMES KNOCKS VERY SOFTLY.
Ø NEVER DEPRIVE SOMEONE OF HOPE. IT MIGHT BE ALL HE OR SHE HAS.
Ø PRAY NOT FOR THINGS, BUT FOR WISDOM AND COURAGE.
Ø NEVER TAKE ACTION WHEN YOU´RE ANGRY.
Ø HAVE GOOD POSTURE, ENTER A ROOM WITH PURPOSE AND CONFIDENCE.
Ø DON´T DISCUSS BUSINESS IN ELEVATORS. YOU NEVER KNOW WHO MAY OVERHEAR YOU.
Ø NEVER PAY FOR WORK BEFORE IT´S COMPLETED.
Ø BE WILLING TO LOSE A BATTLE IN ORDER TO WIN THE WAR.
Ø DON´T GOSSIP.
Ø BEWARE OF THE PERSON WHO HAS NOTHING TO LOSE.
Ø WHEN FACING A DIFFICULT TASK, ACT AS THOUGH IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO FAIL. IF YOU´RE GOING AFTER MOBY DICK, TAKE ALONG THE TARTAR SAUCE.
Ø DON´T SPREAD YOURSELF TOO THIN. LEARN TO SAY NO POLITELY AND QUICKLY.
Ø DON´T EXPECT LIFE TO BE FAIR.
Ø NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS.
Ø INSTEAD OF USING THE WORD PROBLEM, TRY SUBSTITUTING THE WORD OPPORTUNITY.
Ø NEVER WALK OUT IN A QUARREL WITH YOUR WIFE.
Ø REGARDING FURNITURE AND CLOTHES : IF YOU THINK YOU´LL BE USING THEM FIVE YEARS OR LONGER, BUY THE BEST YOU CAN AFFORD.
Ø BE BOLD AND COURAGEOUS. WHEN YOU LOOK BACK ON YOUR LIFE, YOU´LL REGRET THE THINGS YOU DIDN´T DO MORE THAN THE ONES YOU DID.
Ø FORGET COMMITEES. NEW, NOBLE, WORLD-CHANGING IDEAS ALWAYS COME FROM ONE PERSON WORKING ALONE.
Ø STREET MUSICIANS ARE A TREASURE. STOP FOR A MOMENT AND LISTEN, THEN LEAVE A SMALL DONATION.
Ø WHEN FACED WITH A SERIOUS HEALTH PROBLEM, GET AT LEAST THREE MEDICAL OPINIONS.
Ø WAGE WAR AGAINST LITTERING.
Ø AFTER ENCOUNTERING INFERIOR SERVICE, FOOD OR PRODUCTS, BRING IT TO THE ATTENTION OF THE PERSON IN CHARGE. GOOD MANAGERS WILL APPRECIATE KNOWING.
Ø DON´T PROCRASTINATE. DO WHAT NEEDS DOING WHEN IT NEEDS TO BE DONE.
Ø GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT. NO ONE EVER SAID ON HIS DEATHBED, « GEE, IF I´D ONLY SPENT MORE TIME AT THE OFFICE. »
Ø DON´T BE AFRAID TO SAY « I DON´T KNOW ».
Ø DON´T BE AFRAID TO SAY « I´M SORRY ».
Ø MAKE A LIST OF 25 THINGS YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE BEFORE YOU DIE. CARRY IT IN YOUR WALLET AND REFER TO IT OFTEN.
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